I have been avoiding my best friends phone calls for 4 months now because I could not figure out how to tell her about my new found submissive side. I know! Most are saying- why do you need to tell her anyways? Well, she is my best friend in the whole world! I've known her for 20 years- we had a freaking threesome together for God's sake! She knows me better than anyone in this world- even my Mother. She would know if I'm hiding something from her. "Well just don't talk about your sex life." OK- maybe my friends and I are just odd- but we always share every detail of our sexual encounters with each other! I know guys say- we don't share details, maybe it's just a girl thing or maybe just a crazy thing between me and my friends only. But- we share details! She would know I was hiding SOMETHING! So I have spent the past 4 months trying to figure out a way to tell her I'm a kinky SOB!I finally let the cat out of the bag tonight. Boy it sure did not turn out the way I thought it would.
So I called my friend- told her I was sorry for avoiding her calls and I had something to tell her. She immediately freaks- "what is it? You're not pregnant are you? Who's baby is it? OMG- STD?" NO! geez- calm down! Nothing bad. I swear, and I thought I overreacted! After I stopped her from having a major heart attack- I tried to spit out my message. I didn't even know where to start! So I just asked- do you know anything about dominance and submission when it comes to sex? She had no idea what the hell I was talking about. So I said- BDSM? Oh lord- the floodgates swung open! "What's wrong with you?! Where the hell did this come from? You're the shyest person ever! How could you be into that?!" OK- um, that would be why I am a sub and not a Dom! So I tried my best to explain to her that I like the control aspect of things and that I am not into punishment- when I actually am, but I knew she would not be able to handle that part! Once she calmed down she took it better than I thought she would. I could tell she was very interested in it but was embarrassed to say she was. She asked me what types of things I liked and had tried. I told her basically I only liked the man being in charge of things in the bedromm- which we all know is a big fat lie! Again- I know she would not be able to handle the fact if I mentioned things like floggers and collars and leashes! She could barely handle when I said I liked spankings and my hair pulled. So I ended the conversation feeling much better that I had finally shared my big secret with her.
The night got very interesting! I get a text shortly after begging me to send a list of "kinky dirty things" I enjoy because she is interested and that her boyriend is as well. WHAT?! OK- sure, sounds like fun. So I ask R for a good list to send them. Of course being the good mentor he is he finds one right away since I have miss Domme ordering me to send it NOW! Wow lady- a little excited to see the kinky kinky list huh? Or totally just trying to snoop to see what it is I am into exactly. I get another text asking what I am into- I say there are too many to list and that I don't know exactly what I'm into because I have not tried most. (I just don't want to say) She says to list my top three and that her top three are spanking, nipple torture and she likes it rough. Hey, hey- she might be kinkier than I thought! So I tell her my top three- spanking, hair pulling and I LOVE it rough.
I get a call- my friend's in a panic "we can't open the list you sent!" Geez! Just use your imagination then- it's probably on the list, pretty much anything you could ever think of is on the list- plus some. Then of course I get the story of what's going on while I'm talking to her on the phone- she has a big mouth :) Apparently some nipple pinching and God only knows what else is going on- some orders being barked and tickling and lots of mumbled words. OK- time to get off the phone and have fun just the two of you, I'm not into phone sex, especially when it does not involve me in any way! OK- so maybe if I'm involved but we're not getting into that :) She proceeds to say "you may have just made my sex life a little more exciting!" Come to find out- my vanilla friends are not so vanilla!
